Child Lack of Self Confidence in Children

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LACK OF CONFIDENCE IN CHILDREN

Self-confidence can be defined as not being afraid of self-expression, self-love and trust in children. While it is mentioned that many people have a lack of self-confidence, it should not be forgotten that self-confidence begins to develop from childhood and continues to develop throughout life. The family's attitudes and behaviors towards the child in the first years of life are the first factors that determine the direction in which self-confidence will develop. The oppressive, violent, disrespectful and humiliating speech of the family causes negative effects on the child's self-confidence and hinders the development of self-confidence.

FACTORS THAT CAUSE A CHILD'S LACK OF CONFIDENCE

parent behavior
social environment
personal appearance
weight problems
Living conditions
The school where he studied

It can be observed among the factors that cause a lack of self-confidence in a child. While the behavior of the family greatly affects the child's self-confidence during the developmental period, it has also been observed that the behavior patterns shown towards the child in the social environment cause destruction in self-confidence. Living space, home environment, and financial inequalities at school can also lead to a decrease in the child's self-confidence.

WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OF A CHILD'S LACK OF CONFIDENCE?

If he is shy in expressing his thoughts and is ashamed of his thoughts when expressing them.
If there is difficulty in establishing a sense of duty and responsibility. Children who lack self-confidence avoid taking responsibility for fear of failing.



If you feel anxious when being in new environments. If the person has difficulties with communication and this is so intense that everyone can feel it
If there is too much shame
Your child has signs of low self-esteem. In such cases, it is very important to provide your child with the necessary self-confidence support.

HOW CAN I GIVE MY CHILD CONFIDENCE SUPPORT?

Families who are sensitive to their children, called conscious parents, know what kind of environment their child is in during the day, how he feels, whether he is experiencing events that do not bother him or not. For children with such a lack of self-confidence, their families should make them feel that they will prevent them from feeling alone during the day. You should let your child know that you are often there.

If you have a child who is afraid of his skills and constantly thinks he is failing, appreciating the right actions in such situations will be an effective way of support. At the same time, you need to talk to your child and teach them that not everyone has to be successful at everything, but sometimes failure can add something to the person.

By loading small responsibilities, you can ensure that your child, who avoids responsibilities, learns about life with some responsibilities.

You should not expect behavior and success from your child beyond his capacity, as making your child feel that your expectations are too high is another factor that can lead to a lack of self-confidence.

In this process, by being understanding, you can make him/her share his/her personal experiences, joys and happiness with you during the day.

Children with self-confidence problems may experience asociality and some psychological problems in the future. You can also provide the necessary expert support in order not to cause such problems and to eliminate the lack of self-confidence in your child in a short time. Lack of self-confidence, which many people ignore, can cause serious problems in children. It is quite a mistake to think that the development of self-confidence that begins in infancy and continues throughout life is unimportant.

Self-confidence, which is also effective in personal development, has a very important place in the life of every individual. No matter who is around, making sentences and behaving with heavy criticism, swearing, violence and humiliation will negatively affect the individual. While ensuring your child's peace and normal life, you should also make sure that you are raising children who will not adversely affect other people's lives. In addition, some children may lack self-confidence due to their physical characteristics. It is very important not to joke about your child's body when faced with such situations. Making fun of weight is one of the biggest factors that cause a lack of self-confidence in children.
 
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