Foster Family - Adoption What is the Psychology of Adopted Children?


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11 May 2020
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The adoption process is a very difficult process for the adopted child as well as for the families who want to adopt. If a sane adult individual is adopted, the individual may experience various tensions due to concerns about the life he will live, fears of the family's attitude towards him, and assumptions about whether he will be adopted by his environment. If the person to be adopted is a child and his mind is not enough for the benefits of living with another family, in such cases lying in the future, anger towards the family when he grows up, distractions and behavioral disorders may occur. As parents, you should know that this process can be an ointment as much as it can cause wounds in child psychology.

Since you will be raising children who were adopted at a young age who do not have a certain character, the process of adapting to your rights, wrongs and rules will be easier. For individuals who were adopted at an older age, it is very important to be understanding in the process of getting used to the family and to make them feel that they are a part of the family.


If you have adopted your child at a young age and have made your child grow up unaware of this situation, you should be prepared for all kinds of reactions. While many children accept their raising family as their own family and do not mind this situation, dozens of children are attempting to search for their own family, thinking that they have been deceived.

Unfortunately, no one, including experts, will know your child's reaction, which you can predict based on his character and structure. It is very important for family honesty that this situation, which has reactions that may vary from person to person, is not ethically hidden.


When he becomes an adult and knowledgeable individual, he can understand that he is adopted with various ways and signs. In such cases, it is very important to explain in a way that he can understand and to make him feel that he is a part of the family in order not to break his trust.


At first, your child will enter the process of getting used to a new environment and family. As with every individual who has completely disconnected from his previous life, separated from his friends and entered a different life, some behavioral disorders and depression symptoms may be seen in your child.

The tension of a new family, the thought of not being wanted and the idea of being a burden to other people can tire your child. In such cases, the child should not be approached. It is inevitable that individuals who are under pressure will fail in every sense and their hands and feet will become entangled. You should not cause false attitudes that your child will present to you just so that you do not get upset or leave him to his old life again.

In the adoption process, which is a painful process, the reactions of your environment to your child are also very important. They should accept that you are an individual who joins your family by heart, even if not by blood, and they should not look at him as someone else's child.

This benevolent and compassionate act that can be done by anyone who wants to have a child and thinks they have the necessary opportunities will light the future of many children. If you have a home, love and life to share, you can also be a hope for children and take part in their lives as the heroes of their lives.

Individuals who cannot come to terms with difficulties, do not want to provide financial opportunities for others and cannot see them as a part of the family, should not take such steps. It is necessary to be people who are aware that children who have a difficult life are not toys and cannot be taken and left behind.

Being conscious, loving, non-discriminatory people and accepting someone else's life as their life is a step that not everyone dares to take.